Vanessa and Morgan on Attracting, Recognizing and Honoring Your True Life-Partner

Wanna, Coulda, Woulda

Morgan and I have mentioned many a times the magic use of the “W” words (Would and Will instead of Could and Can) when asking men to do stuff… I learned this by reading “Men are From Mars, Women are from Venus,” by John Gray and I have put it to good use with ex-husbands, bosses, male friends and even my dad.

Just last night we were watching an old episode of “Big Bang Theory” and someone knocked on Leonard and Sheldon’s apartment door:

Leonard to Sheldon: “Wanna get that?”
Sheldon: “No.”
Leonard: “Could you get that?”
Sheldon: “Sure, but I don’t want to.”
Leonard: “Would you get that?”
Sheldon: “Of course. Why do you have to complicate things?”

LOL! See… it works!

For those of you in the Support group… “See” you tomorrow at NOON! If you’d like to find the right person to share your life with… contact us and we’ll help you get it done!

Laundry Math

Just a simple reminder how differently men and women think… and how important it is to communicate in a healthy relationship!  My husband did the laundry yesterday.  But, somehow, I’m still doing laundry today.  How is that?  I asked him, “How come you didn’t do the light-colored clothes?”  His answer, “I did TWO loads of laundry.”

Male definition “laundry:” put something in the washer, dry it, maybe fold it and put it away.

Female definition “laundry:” search the house for all dirty clothes, make piles, proceed through all piles, wash, dry, fold and put away.

The thing is… we still have to thank them for “doing the laundry,” even when, in our minds, they didn’t FINISH doing the laundry.  The trick here, and one of the most deeply spiritual tools we teach… is gratitude!

Thank him.  Thank the universe for bringing you a man who does laundry.  Thank the sun for shining and the roof over your head.  Be grateful.  Life and love will flow more smoothly.  And, next time, he might do even more of the laundry!

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Fishes and Bicycles

A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.

Have you ever heard that saying?

Fishes don’t NEED bicycles!  Fish are entirely independent creatures who can transport themselves where they need to go without two wheels and pedals.  So… why do we coach women on how to find love?  Well, our philosophy is that a healthy relationship isn’t about need… it’s about PARTNERSHIP.  We want to give women the strength and tools to choose the relationships that support them.  When you lift each other up… that’s when you know you are equal and balanced.  Call us to find out more about our classes on how to find YOUR true life-partner (310-902-1515).  Take control.  Make your own, “It’s meant to be!”

This Sunday, March 25, 2012, Vanessa and Morgan will be speaking at the “Day of Healthy Choices” on the five mistakes women make with men.  We will be giving you practical tools you can start implementing right away with your partner, your boss, your colleagues and your friends.  Most women make assumptions about how men communicate that leave men, well, oblivious!  They don’t even know that we’ve been TRYING to communicate with them.  So, we will give you our five simple techniques to be clearer in your own soul about what you’re trying to say AND will provide men with the clear direction to actually give you what you want!  It’s not magical, but it will feel that way.  These are all tools we teach in our private sessions and in our group classes, but we’ve never pulled them together in quite this way before!  Sign up for Sunday’s session here:  or call us today to learn about our classes on how to FIND love or our sessions on how to improve what you’ve got!

With Love,

Vanessa and Morgan

Only a few more days to sign up for our intense, supportive, meaningful, fun and powerful event this Sunday, January 15 from 1-4PM in Redondo Beach: “Release Old Loves in the New Year.” It’s only $20.12 in honor of glorious new beginnings. For more information:

Are you looking for LOVE?

Have you ever been divorced? had a bad break-up or lost the love of your life?

Were you hurt by someone in your past who rejected you, cheated on you or generally made you miserable?

Even if you’ve found a good relationship now, do your past mistakes haunt you?

Are you ready to start 2012 with a new energy, releasing those old hurts so you can be ready for all the glorious things the universe is waiting to give you?

Morgan and I have a great relationship and we still find that the past creeps in and messes things up!  We even have a name for when that happens; we call it Post Traumatic Relationship Disorder or PTRD!

So we had this idea… let’s do an event for all our Deserving Women, both single and in relationships to help them to release the past and look forward to the good that the future can bring without the weight of mistakes, regrets and pain.  And, as a gift to all our deserving women and their friends, the cost of the event is only $20.12, as our way of ringing in the New Year with new intentions, free from hurts and limitations of the past.

This special live event will be on Sunday, January 15, 2012 in Redondo Beach from 1:00PM to 4:00PM.  In only 3 hours, we will guide you through a series of exercises that will give you immediate relief as well as tools to use when that PTRD bites you in the butt! Let’s start 2012 fresh and ready for something new and different.  And, let’s do it together!

If you are one of our long-distance clients… sign up to receive the recording and we’ll throw in a complimentary 20 minute one-on-one phone session to put you in the right frame of mind!

Sign up now!  Space is limited…